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Taylor Swift and Joe Alwyn’s Relationship Timeline

You’re a little over-confident

Everybody has insecurities. We’re human. But we’re not putting too much emphasis on them. You’re just too focused on the positive. You want the perfect guy. He’s perfect. You haven’t got a bad bone in your body. You’re an attractive and intelligent woman with a good job and a great apartment. There’s no way anybody could think you’re anything but perfect. You talk about yourself too much. You think your body looks amazing, and you’re probably right. But the idea of putting your body out there for anyone to see with zero SPF is terrifying. You cover up, you pick clothes that cover up. You might want to consider a little extra SPF on your face. Maybe get a better hairstyle. And please, PLEASE, avoid blond and red highlights. They look good on you, but only if you have good hair, which you do.

The man is a little over-confident

He doesn’t even spend much time taking care of himself. He’s always cold and in need of a shower. He drinks, and drinks, and drinks. He doesn’t shower, which is fine if he’s a sporty kind of guy, but if he’s the kind of guy who likes to putz about in front of the TV in his jorts, he should have the wherewithal to take care of himself a little better. If you’re the kind of woman who likes an active lifestyle, he might not be the best sport, but he should put his cell phone away when you’re having drinks. And that’s always when you’re having drinks. He can’t cook, so you always cook, right? You’ve got skills. He can’t be with a woman, or he can’t handle that aspect of women. He’s a stiff.

You’re a little too ambitious

You’ve got to be. You want a better life. You’re an ambitious woman, and that’s an asset, but if you’re the kind of ambitious woman who can’t deal with the idea of compromising, you’re going to be in for a long night. That’s what ambition gets you. Everybody has their limit. And you’ve hit yours. Your mind is racing with one-upmanship. You don’t want to be an overachiever; you want to be an achiever. You don’t want to be a workaholic; you want to be a working woman. That is
How to Deal with Someone Who Sets You Off

Although we are taught to never make assumptions about people’s sexual identity (or lack thereof), every so often, you meet someone who just doesn’t seem like they’re into any of the typical dating stuff, but you don’t quite know what that means. If you’re in a relationship, it’s unlikely that the person in question would drive you out of your groove, but you can’t know for sure unless you get to know them. The question is, how do you handle someone who just hasn’t revealed their true identity, and is that more than a petulant way to say, “you don’t know me,” or do you want to get to know them?

A little over a month ago, I wrote a bit about how to deal with someone who makes you feel like you need to date them, so I have a few more tips for you on this topic. Perhaps one of the most important things to remember in this situation is that, in fact, the other person is almost certainly not interested in you, rather, they are interested in having a fun time with you and maybe maybe eventually finding a friend in you. The idea of them introducing you to their friends and family is not your goal, they are.

Be Honest with Yourself

There is a good chance that this person is looking for some kind of validation and they want to know that you, and in turn, they are attracted to you. The “they” in question could be a friend, friend’s ex, co-worker, date, or person with whom you are comfortable being physically close to. If you are one of the many women who has gotten messages on OKCupid or some other dating site that is written off as “not a real person” it really doesn’t matter whether the person writing the message is a friend, ex-boyfriend, or someone you met at a work function, it’s a pretty safe bet that the person isn’t into you, so be honest with yourself. If you find that someone has been made somewhat uncomfortable by some comment you have made or you have done or you have worn a revealing shirt, then you can always apologize, but you should never assume that someone is interested in you because they are aroused by you. Some people are just naturally beautiful, and you will probably have better luck with people who are attracted to you because you are.

You will feel a bit uncomfortable, but you will feel more relaxed when you realize that

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